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Disagreements – what’s normal and what’s not?
Whether you are together, co-parenting or separated, disagreements are completely normal within all parenting relationships. But if it feels like the arguments are frequent, intense or poorly resolved, it’s time to seek help. With the right support, you can avoid a negative impact on your own and your children’s well-being and mental health.
Is the support in “Stronger Family Relationships” right for me?
Recognise any of these signs within your parenting relationship? If so, our resources can help.
Within my parenting relationship, I feel…
- A lack of warmth or emotional connection
- The arguments have become too intense or too regular
- I am not listened to
- My partner doesn’t understand my perspective
- Unhappy with the outcome of the arguments
Talk it out, work it out, work together - create better emotionally equipped children
Children growing up in an environment with frequent and intense arguments can develop many negative long-term outcomes. However, when children see adults working out their disagreements in a positive way, they can learn important life skills and become much better emotionally equipped.
Merton parental conflict resolution
OnePlusOne online resources
Parents in Merton can access free online resources from the relationship experts at OnePlusOne. Learn to cope with stress and communicate better, wherever you are in your parenting journey.
- Me, You and Baby Too – Learn how to navigate the changes that happen in a relationship when a baby arrives.
- Arguing Better – Disagreements are a normal part of life. How you approach them can make all the difference to you, your partner, and your children. Learn how to manage difficult conversations, avoid conflict, and improve things for your whole family.
- Getting it Right for Children – When parents are separating or separated, children can often get caught in the middle. Develop positive communication skills, so that you can sort out disagreements and find solutions together.
- Debt and Relationships – Debt and money troubles are among the biggest causes of relationship stress. Learn why it’s always a good idea to talk to your partner about what’s happening.
Parental conflict or domestic abuse?
Parental conflict and domestic abuse are two separate things. Domestic abuse is usually present when there is an imbalance of power and control, and one parent is fearful within the parenting relationship.
For help identifying domestic abuse view the Refuge website:
Signs of domestic abuse - Refuge
Further support
Family Information Support Hubs
If you are experiencing relationship distress, you can book a session over the phone or in person and get help and support from a specialist advisor. They will offer advice and guidance to help you find and access the supportive information and services that you need.
Family Information and Support Hubs